2022考研英语新题型小练（4）

A. Just say it

B. Be present

C. Pay a unique compliment

D. Name, places, things

E. Find the “me too”s

F. Skip the small talk

G. Ask for an opinion

Five ways to make conversation with anyone

Conversations are links, which means when you have a conversation with a new person a link gets formed and every conversation you have after that moment will strengthen the link.

You meet new people every day: the grocery worker, the cab driver, new people at work or the security guard at the door. Simply starting a conversation with them will form a link.

Here are five simple ways that you can make the first move and start a conversation with strangers.

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Suppose you are in a room with someone you don't know and something within you says “I want to talk with this person”- this is something the mostly happens with all of us. You wanted to say something- the first word- but it just won't come out. It feels like it is stuck somewhere, I know the feelings and here is my advice just get it out.

Just think: that is the worst that could happen? They won't talk with you? Well, they are not talking with you now!

I truly believe that once you get that first word out everything else will just flow. So keep it simple: “Hi”, “Hey” or “Hello”—— do the best you can to gather all of the enthusiasm and energy you can, put on a big smile and say “Hi”.

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It’s a problem all of us face: you have limited time with the person that you want to talk with and you want to make this talk, memorable.

Honestly, if we got stuck, in the rut, of “hi”, “hello”, “how are you” “and what's going on?” you will fail to give the initial Jolt to the conversation that can make it so memorable.

So don't be afraid, to ask more personal questions. Trust me, you’ll be surprised to see how much people are willing to share if you just ask.

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When you meet a person for the first time, make an effort to find the things which you and that person, have in common so that you can build the conversation, from that point. When you start a conversation from there and then move outward, you will find all of a sudden that the conversation becomes a lot easier.

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Imagine you are pouring your heart out to someone and they are just busy on their phone, and if you ask, for their attention, you get the response “I can Multitask”.

So when someone tries, to communicate with you, just be in that communication wholeheartedly. Make eye contact, you can feel the conversation.

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You all came into a conversation, where you first met the person, but after some time you may have met again, and have forgotten their name. Isn't that awkward!

So remember the little details of the people you might, or you talked with; perhaps the places they have been to, the place they want to go, the things they like, the thing they hate - whatever you talk about

When you remember such thing you can automatically become investor in their well being. So they feel a responsibility to you to keep bad relationship going

That's it. Five amazing ways that you can make conversation with almost anyone. Every person is a really good book to read, or to have a conversation with! 

答案：AFECD

A. 直接说

B. 在场

C. 给予独特的赞美

D. 名称、地点、事物

E. 找到“我也是”

F. 跳过闲聊

G. 征求意见

与任何人交谈的五种方法

对话是链接，这意味着当你与一个新人交谈时，一个链接就会形成，在那之后你的每一次对话都会加强这个链接。

您每天都会结识新朋友：杂货店工人、出租车司机、工作中的新朋友或门口的保安。只需与他们开始对话即可形成链接。

以下是您可以迈出第一步并与陌生人开始对话的五种简单方法。

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假设你和一个你不认识的人在一个房间里，你内心的某个东西说“我想和这个人谈谈”——这是我们所有人最常发生的事情。你想说些什么——第一个词——但就是说不出来。感觉它被卡在某个地方，我知道这种感觉，这是我的建议，把它弄出来。

想一想：这是可能发生的最坏情况吗？他们不和你说话？好吧，他们现在不和你说话了！

我真的相信，一旦你说出第一个词，其他一切都会顺理成章。所以保持简单：“嗨”，“嘿”或“你好”——尽你所能，聚集所有你能做到的热情和能量，露出灿烂的笑容说“嗨”。

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这是我们所有人都面临的一个问题：您与您想与之交谈的人的时间有限，并且您想让这次谈话令人难忘。

老实说，如果我们陷入了“嗨”、“你好”、“你好吗”、“发生了什么事？”你将无法在谈话中给予最初的震撼，让谈话变得如此令人难忘。

所以不要害怕，问更多的私人问题。相信我，如果您只是询问，您会惊讶地发现有多少人愿意分享。

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当你第一次见到一个人时，努力找出你和那个人的共同点，这样你就可以从那一点开始建立对话。当你从那里开始谈话然后向外移动时，你会突然发现谈话变得容易多了。

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想象一下，您正在向某人倾诉心声，而他们正忙于接听电话，如果您要求他们注意，您会得到“我可以同时处理多项任务”的回应。

因此，当有人尝试与您交流时，请全心全意地进行交流。进行眼神交流，您可以感受到对话。

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你们都进入了一次谈话，在那里你们第一次见到了那个人，但过了一段时间你们可能又见面了，忘记了他们的名字。是不是很尴尬！

因此，请记住您可能会或与之交谈的人的小细节；也许他们去过的地方，他们想去的地方，他们喜欢的东西，他们讨厌的东西——无论你谈论什么

当您记住这些事情时，您就可以自动成为他们福祉的投资者。所以他们觉得你有责任让糟糕的关系继续下去

就是这样。您可以通过五种惊人的方式与几乎任何人进行对话。每个人都是一本非常值得阅读或交谈的好书！